저는 20대 후반이고 남자친구는 30대 초반이에요.
저는 아직 결혼에 대한 생각은 없지만 남자친구가 부모님을 소개 시켜주고 싶다고 해서 만나봤어요. 남자친구 부모님은 저희 부모님의 고향, 직업, 나이를 물어보시더니 몇 번 당황하는 기색을 보이시더라구요.
저희 아버지는 초등학교 때 건강때문에 돌아가시고 엄마만 저희 남매를 두 남매를 키우셨어요. 현재는 제가 돈을 벌고 있어서(평범한 회사) 어렸을 때 보다는 가정 환경이 조금 나아졌지만 잘 산다고 볼 수는 없어요.
남자친구는 반대로 어렸을때 미국에서 태어나서 이중 국적자이고 학교도 로스쿨 졸업하고 변호사 준비중이에요. 부모님들도 잘 사세요.
그렇게 어색한 만남 이후에
남친이랑 부모님이랑 몰래 통화하는 거 들었는데 부모님은 저를 그만 만나고 부모님이 소개한 여자를 만나봐라 하는 상황이었어요. 남자친구는 부모님한테 여자친구한테 절대 거짓말 하지 못한다고 엄청 화내고..
저는 못 들은 척 했어요. 그래서 남자친구한테 아까 통화 다 들었다. 솔직하게 말해라. 하니깐 남자친구가 솔직히 좀 힘들다면서 울더군요. 집에서 압박을 자주 하나봐요. 남자친구한테 그래도 저 만나달라고 하고 싶지도 않아요. 헤어지는 게 답이겠죠? 그래도 2년 만나는 동안 정은 많이 들었네요..
MMOexp-Diablo 4 Which Classes Dominate the Endgame in Season 9
We're now two weeks deep into Diablo 4's latest season, and it's time to separate fact from fiction. After leveling every class to 60 and dragging them into Torment IV, I've got a full breakdown on which builds shine the brightest-and which ones look promising on paper but fall flat in practice
Diablo IV gold.
So, whether you're aiming to hit Pit 100 or just looking for the easiest class to cruise through the early endgame, this guide covers the best builds, required gear, and how much effort each playstyle demands. Let's dive in.
Sorcerer: The Teleporting Hydra God
If you want raw power with minimal effort, Hydra Sorcerer is your go-to class this season.
Why It's S-Tier:
Fast 1-60 leveling thanks to smooth mobility and Haradric powers.
Once you get the key unique Aidian Iris, paired with Hydra Temper Vam, Torment III melts.
Add Greater Affix items and you're instantly slaying in Torment IV.
Scaling into Pit 100:
Here's where things get trickier. The Fitting Iris scales your Hydra damage based on the number of bonus heads you've got, which means triple Masterworked tempers become a must.
If you're aiming for:
Pit 90-95: Double Masterworks are enough.
Pit 100+: You'll need perfect rolls-triple bonuses on resource cost, crit, and skill ranks (e.g., Primordial Binding, Glass Cannon, Harlequin Crest).
Verdict: Easy start, massive power, but high-end requires obsessive min-maxing.
Druid: Pulverize + Poison = Broken Damage
Surprise of the season? Druid is absolutely busted. Pulverize with the Rotten Lightbringer turns you into a poison-spewing machine of death.
What Makes It So Good:
Creates poison puddles that spew droplets dealing 50-100 billion per tick.
No need for triple Masterworks or Mythics to get started.
600%+ bonus damage from the Lightbringer alone.
Can hit Pit 90 with basic gear and no Greater Affixes.
You can amplify this even further with:
Air of Perdition
Ring of Starless Skies
Core Skill greater affixes on gloves and amulets.
With enough ranks, Pulverize can reach 30+ levels, scaling damage beyond anything we've seen in earlier seasons.
Verdict: Probably the easiest class to push to Pit 100. Budget-friendly. No gatekeeping gear walls.
Necromancer: Lazy Leveling, Easy Power
If you want the most chill, low-effort experience possible, Minion Necro is your best friend.
What Makes It So Simple:
Level 1-60 is effortless with skeletons and mages doing the work.
No need for big uniques early-just Hand of Nas gets you into Torment IV.
Add Ring of Mendeln and basic masterworks, and you're set.
Even with mediocre gear:
No triple Masterworks
No Greater Affix on gloves
Missing Hellbent Commander entirely
and you're still farming Pit 80-85 comfortably.
Room to Grow:
Missing 63 Paragon points? Still works.
Glyph levels below 70? Still viable.
The ceiling is high, and you'll feel strong long before you're fully optimized.
Verdict: Necro delivers smooth power without the stress. Start here if you want zero friction progression.
Spiritborn: Cool Concept, High Maintenance
Let's talk about the Spiritborn-a new fan favorite that's unfortunately more theory than reality for most players.
What's the Hype?
With Bellazan's Maxtlatl and Jaguar Spirit Hall, you fire off thorns and damage procs like a magical shotgun.
It's visually wild and sounds good on paper.
The Problem:
You need the helmet to boost Spirit Hall potency.
You must have triple Masterworks on:
Jaguar Spirit Hall potency
Mystic Circle potency (multiple times)
Every relevant modifier
Without perfect rolls, your build just... stalls. Even if you're clearing Pit 90, it takes:
Several trashed Greater Affix rings
Obsessive farming for high-rolled potency
Endless rerolls that drain resources and sanity
Verdict: Snake oil for casuals, god-tier for perfectionists. Don't start here unless you enjoy endless farming.
Rogue: Powerful-If You Have a Stash Full of Gear
Rogues aren't bad this season-but they're not great starter classes.
What They Need:
Azurewrath (Lucky Hit-based damage)
Fist of Fate
Penitent Greaves
Tibolt's Will
That's four uniques before you even start dealing real damage. The Rogue's best builds rely on item synergy from other boss drops:
Duriel, Andariel, Harbinger of Hatred for Azurewrath
Ice Beast for Fist of Fate
Once You Have Them:
You can:
Farm Pit 80-85 easily
Clear all of Torment IV
Melt bosses using Penetrating Shot with 137% bonus damage
But to go further?
Triple Masterwork Eaglehorn Bow
Max-roll Lucky Hit Chance on Azurewrath
Verdict: Great for alt characters. Don't start here unless you already have stash support.Barbarian: Last to Level, First in Fury
Much like the Rogue, Barbarian is not for the faint of heart-but becomes a powerhouse once geared.
You'll Need:
Ramaladni's Magnum Opus
Hoofs of the Mountain God
Shout of Verathal
Tibolt's Will
Aspect of Moonrise
Aspect of Adaptability
Most of these need to be Greater Affix, high-rolled, and/or triple Masterworked to feel right. When you hit that sweet spot? You scale damage based on 300+ Fury and get 120-400%+ bonus damage.
But it's very unlikely you'll get that kind of gear on your first character.
Verdict: Once you're geared, you fly-but Barb is best saved for third or fourth character status.
Final Thoughts
If you want to feel powerful early and reach Torment IV or even Pit 90+ without sweating over item rolls and perfect tempers, Druid, Sorcerer cheap D4 Gold, and Necromancer are your best bets this season.
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저도 비슷한 상황이네요.. 마음이 아파요.